So I was working out at the gym one morning and on TV I see a story about when people are most likely to run red lights. Apparently you’re most likely to run a red light between one to five on a Friday. Well, yeah!
Which brings me to today’s pet peeve, which is, we get so focused on our next urgent appointment that we don’t see the human beings who get in our way.
One of my favorite movies of all time is Starman, mostly because I love it when Jeff Bridges, the alien who is learning how to drive, says to Karen Allen, “I watched you very carefully. Red light, stop. Green light, go. Yellow light, go very fast.” Luckily, he didn’t know my first husband, who believed that if you’d seen a green light at any time while you were approaching the intersection, well! Drive on through!
And this sounds funny, but actually it’s not, because sometimes there’s someone already in the intersection. Sometimes it’s a pedestrian or a bicyclist who doesn’t have a big metal shell around them. Maybe they’re talking on their cell phone, or taking their time. They might even be breaking a traffic rule. And you might be in a rush yourself or have the sun in your eyes, and then someone gets hurt. And it’s probably not you.
So give yourself a little bit more time today so that you notice the mother with the stroller who is crossing the street in front of your car.
Green light, go. Red light, stop. It was true in kindergarten and it still is.
Currently, Brenda is a writer of commentary, essays, and books. She believes in saving the world through music, the written word, and not looking before you leap. You can catch her on her blog. Listen to PRP